Sweet 16 Party Ideas?

I'm going to be turning 16 in February, so I only have 2 months to plan something perfect! This is going to be my last birthday party ever (from my parents anyways). My dream sweet 16 theme? It's simple really. I just wanted a Dj Dance party. It would be in my church gym, which has a disco ball and a bounce house lol and a big projection screen that we could watch DVDs on and it's be a big boy and girl lock-in sleepover. The problem? First my dad said no to a DJ (he says no to almost anything). My parents are super strict Christian parents. So instead my brother said he'd help me burn a cd with all the songs on it that I want to play, cause there's also a nice sound system in there. But my mom has to talk with my dad and see if he'll approve of this idea. If he doesn't, I'm stuck!! I have all the details worked out for a DJ Dance theme, so I need a whole back up plan in case I can't have my #1 wish. I was thinking of maybe just having my closest girl friends stay at a really nice hotel with me and we could jam out to hot hits on my ipod there and go to the gym and pool. All 3 of my brothers valet park at this hotel, so I could probably get some kind of a discount. :) Does that sound like something fun for a sweet 16? What are you ideas? I please list a few details to go with your theme ideas!! Thank you so so so much! I need ALL the help I can get! =)